在教會認識的友人未加入小組，邀請她加入我的小組，然而她不太想加入小組，因為她不想認識太多人。
如何才算是認識呢？如何才算是熟絡的朋友呢，像新加入的其中一位組員的友誼，有時會給我壓力，因大家的想法太不同了。昨天她說到，不知道某節日，會否影響小組的出席率呢？我還是照字面看，某節日不一定會影響小組的出席率呀。甚至就此問題研究一番。然而，原來她想估計當日的出席率。而再下來，當日出席率又會有甚麼影響嗎？無論出席率，所要做的侍奉可不仍然是一樣的嗎？然而我在糾纏這些問題之間的邏輯關係的時候，其實重點是，只是要給出估算出席率就能夠完成整件事了，其實沒有關係，又有甚麼關係呢？
就我間或因友誼而受到壓力，一位友人問我，那麼你和她是朋友嗎？
如果沒有相同的出沒地點，就只是接近永不聯絡的朋友，因為我很少約朋友出來的。
I have such a packed schedule that I could hardly meet up friends other than due to common activities.
On the next day of Labor Day I met some friends for tea and then dinner due to ad hoc participating their activity. In the evening, a friend called to see whether I have enough rest on that day. I was almost feeling that I was checked and found that I was doing something wrong. I think my friend can find me too busy and not giving enough time for them. Or some.
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