20110222 眾裡尋他/她 Study Notes
1. don't find love to fulfill other needs
2. the question: would you like someone you love more, or someone who loves you more?
3. Guys like to chase gals, gals like to be chased by guys, but God brings a couple together, the need of having a mate is first seen by God
4. Don't see the 'making of' of the other half (the making of could quite horrible), just the finished product
5a. Where does the mate come from: within you! There are pros and cons for similar or complimentary other half
5b. marriage is one and only one 認定 and the commitment must be initiated by the guy
5c. know your need, e.g. in Marslow hierarchy of needs. If you do not know your needs, pray. It is because God knows the most of your needs
5d. the other half, it is the other half of you, but not of your mom, not of your friend, not of your pastor
5e. if either one is relying heavily of the other it is very tiredsome, so prepare yourself to be a healthy person
6a. Is there need to find a mate?
The need of a mate is in born
The gift of alone is that everyone has to live along.
If entering a marriage we are not finding a good partner, 同等的, you might be finding a 膏藥 sticking on your wound, one day you 痊癒 you will find you do not need the 膏藥 anymore 膏藥又臭又沒用，不知係到做咩。
6b. Where can I find a mate?
在人類當中，一個異性 your missing part
6c. How can I find a mate?
before entering into marriage, 神要亞當先成長, i/ God will train the person's management ability, and ready for the commitment, ready for 愛和專一. ii/ God will let the person feel lonely and then know his need, God will train the person's thanksgiving heart. After learning these two things, God will bring the other half in front of you.
6d. How do I know is the one?
Unknown now is normal. 沉睡, in a deep sleep when God is preparing. Get a rest before the bride is brought in front of you. Enjoy the rest and grow up during this time.
7. What makes the love relationship difficult?
a. People brings their wants / past pains into the love relationship.
b. Sin. Selfishness.
8. A happy love relationship: the two are giving to each other
9. Conclusion: find someone you love and who loves you. It is just 先後次序 during chasing, but after entering marriage, both must love each other deeply. find someone you can commit to. treasure someone who can commit to you. be thankful.
http://www.upwill.org/sermon/20-2010-11-25-06-40-31/5947-preach
2011年2月25日 星期五
2011年2月22日 星期二
因果的觀察 The observation of cause and effect
有一次我很早起來，就出門去早禱會。
而母親的觀察是，我想去早禱會所以這麼早起來。
Once, I woke up early, thus attended the daybreak prayer meeting.
Mother has the opposite interpretation, that I woke up for attending the daybreak prayer meeting.
而母親的觀察是，我想去早禱會所以這麼早起來。
Once, I woke up early, thus attended the daybreak prayer meeting.
Mother has the opposite interpretation, that I woke up for attending the daybreak prayer meeting.
2011年2月21日 星期一
沒有如果 Make no assumption
沒有如果
最經聆聽國語聖經到以斯帖記。這是我曾建議辦公查經小組查考的經文。當時最終決定選另一個建議，傳道書。有時我想，以斯帖記激勵些，假如是查這經卷，士氣會好一點嗎？
我也好像想上電視，常常想起如果那天去完宿營能趕得及當廚神助理就好了。但也只是一點點，因為想起那不是我真的想出鏡，只是想想有也很好；勉強的話，其實可以要求合唱的時候攝進去嗎？有想過這些可能的。
最經聆聽國語聖經到以斯帖記。這是我曾建議辦公查經小組查考的經文。當時最終決定選另一個建議，傳道書。有時我想，以斯帖記激勵些，假如是查這經卷，士氣會好一點嗎？
我也好像想上電視，常常想起如果那天去完宿營能趕得及當廚神助理就好了。但也只是一點點，因為想起那不是我真的想出鏡，只是想想有也很好；勉強的話，其實可以要求合唱的時候攝進去嗎？有想過這些可能的。
2011年2月20日 星期日
20110220 夢 Dream
我家的貓小咪是不准進入房間的。
在夢中就是這樣在阻止她進房間。貼牆有一個櫃子，前些少另有一個櫃子，類似間隔櫃。我留一點門縫，她僅僅不能進來，然後我打開一點看看她是否在外面，她的聲音已從第二個櫃頂傳來。看來她在須臾已跳上櫃架。
We don't allow our cat Meme to go in bedrooms.
In this dream there is this exercise of prevent her to come in. The setting was a door, and two shelves, one backed with wall (next to the door) and another one in front forming a partition. I left a gap at the door that I thought she cannot enter. But when I opened the door to see if she is outside, and then her voice already came from above the second shelf. It is obvious that she has jumped up the shelf in seconds.
在夢中就是這樣在阻止她進房間。貼牆有一個櫃子，前些少另有一個櫃子，類似間隔櫃。我留一點門縫，她僅僅不能進來，然後我打開一點看看她是否在外面，她的聲音已從第二個櫃頂傳來。看來她在須臾已跳上櫃架。
We don't allow our cat Meme to go in bedrooms.
In this dream there is this exercise of prevent her to come in. The setting was a door, and two shelves, one backed with wall (next to the door) and another one in front forming a partition. I left a gap at the door that I thought she cannot enter. But when I opened the door to see if she is outside, and then her voice already came from above the second shelf. It is obvious that she has jumped up the shelf in seconds.
2011年2月16日 星期三
20110216 夢 Dream
今天早上夢到今晚的小組因為應承了去兩個活動，所以最後太遲，晚上十一時，而沒有出席小組，我出席的活動好像是合唱團練歌，在等指揮和/或司琴。
This morning dream that today's cell gathering because of crash of activities that I was too late until 11pm and then I cannot attend cell. The activity that I was joining was t-choir rehaersal, waiting for conductor and / or pianist.
This morning dream that today's cell gathering because of crash of activities that I was too late until 11pm and then I cannot attend cell. The activity that I was joining was t-choir rehaersal, waiting for conductor and / or pianist.
2011年2月15日 星期二
瑪拉媽媽 Mara Mama
我感到有點慚愧，不能成為母親的榮耀。是在說她不喜歡我前天的服飾，又回應報紙上我的故事，說，如果每天致電也可以很令人心甜嘛，總之，母親總不明白我為甚麼沒有將自己發揮得好好，她說，弟弟的說法是暴殄天物？
今次我已經好許多了，過去一定會超級覺得她不明白我。其實在她看來是很對的，漂亮些約會會更成功，只不過這不是事實的全部。
不過也對不起她，沒有讓她開心。
其實我可以學習賢德的婦人，因為其中一個說法是她有十二項美德，只有一項與美貌有關。由於我打扮的時間少於十二分之一，所以可以稍為增加。
但其實暫時也不會呀。
以及，在每天致電方面其實我現在都是像當年那麼想確定關係。
按：Mara means bitter.
今次我已經好許多了，過去一定會超級覺得她不明白我。其實在她看來是很對的，漂亮些約會會更成功，只不過這不是事實的全部。
不過也對不起她，沒有讓她開心。
其實我可以學習賢德的婦人，因為其中一個說法是她有十二項美德，只有一項與美貌有關。由於我打扮的時間少於十二分之一，所以可以稍為增加。
但其實暫時也不會呀。
以及，在每天致電方面其實我現在都是像當年那麼想確定關係。
按：Mara means bitter.
2011年2月14日 星期一
表達祝福 Presenting blessings
1
很開心做了一件表達意願的事。(不是表白啦﹗)
其實我也不知道這是我真的喜歡還是源於我的次序框框的執著。
於是我不會跟從次序的框框了。
2
而一向是好聆聽者的我，也變成不好的聆聽者了。
有朋友批評我不夠細心站在對方的角度時，猜想我是忙著歌唱比賽。
說真的在預備歌唱比賽，我是在圍繞被給評語、給人評語、重視甚麼、取捨選擇的問題思考。這樣可以說我在預備唱歌，又不全是。
有些批評是我要很花氣力去回答。或是我已經盡力也被提點一些觀點與角度和價值觀的缺失。這時我就會很疲乏，卻又會想討論，打破沙盤問到底，因為對方是說我錯而不是說大家都對。前些時候在收音機聽到，一個結束爭論的方法，是說結束話題是不行的，是要稍稍偏離話題，但又相關，就可以好好的結束爭論，這是符合我的方法，只可惜我自己也不懂實行。至於朋友提醒我的觀點，其實我也覺得是對的，只是若表達時像是我的觀點和取捨是錯了，我會很氣憤，看來我不是很有耐性。
最近有朋友很消沉，我很擔心，同時更發現多麼的無能為力。當我將鼓勵的說話都說盡了，還是不能帶來鼓勵，還是不能提醒要聚焦於神，而不是別人的批評、壓力、眼光(或甚至只是自己構想的別人的眼光)。我真的很想表達神的愛，是多麼的長闊高深，和超越一切。而現在寫這篇的時候，我有點發現。我好像逃避了我的愛，因為我太脆弱，也沒有很多愛，可以給我的朋友。但是，也許只需要一點點就可以了吧？好的，消沉的朋友，我是愛你的，所以當然你可以專注地為那些不夠愛你的批評、壓力、眼光(有些也許只是你的想像)而難過而困擾而想逃避而擔憂，(還有就是我的表達方式也可能像不愛你的。)呀，但是我也有點氣憤(又有點氣餒)，相同的消沉好像已經重覆多次了嘛﹗明明走出來了竟又走進死胡同。看來我再一次不是很有耐性。
這在主裡的平安，是沒有人能奪去的。(我是在學習這樣依靠神。)
很開心做了一件表達意願的事。(不是表白啦﹗)
其實我也不知道這是我真的喜歡還是源於我的次序框框的執著。
於是我不會跟從次序的框框了。
2
而一向是好聆聽者的我，也變成不好的聆聽者了。
有朋友批評我不夠細心站在對方的角度時，猜想我是忙著歌唱比賽。
說真的在預備歌唱比賽，我是在圍繞被給評語、給人評語、重視甚麼、取捨選擇的問題思考。這樣可以說我在預備唱歌，又不全是。
有些批評是我要很花氣力去回答。或是我已經盡力也被提點一些觀點與角度和價值觀的缺失。這時我就會很疲乏，卻又會想討論，打破沙盤問到底，因為對方是說我錯而不是說大家都對。前些時候在收音機聽到，一個結束爭論的方法，是說結束話題是不行的，是要稍稍偏離話題，但又相關，就可以好好的結束爭論，這是符合我的方法，只可惜我自己也不懂實行。至於朋友提醒我的觀點，其實我也覺得是對的，只是若表達時像是我的觀點和取捨是錯了，我會很氣憤，看來我不是很有耐性。
最近有朋友很消沉，我很擔心，同時更發現多麼的無能為力。當我將鼓勵的說話都說盡了，還是不能帶來鼓勵，還是不能提醒要聚焦於神，而不是別人的批評、壓力、眼光(或甚至只是自己構想的別人的眼光)。我真的很想表達神的愛，是多麼的長闊高深，和超越一切。而現在寫這篇的時候，我有點發現。我好像逃避了我的愛，因為我太脆弱，也沒有很多愛，可以給我的朋友。但是，也許只需要一點點就可以了吧？好的，消沉的朋友，我是愛你的，所以當然你可以專注地為那些不夠愛你的批評、壓力、眼光(有些也許只是你的想像)而難過而困擾而想逃避而擔憂，(還有就是我的表達方式也可能像不愛你的。)呀，但是我也有點氣憤(又有點氣餒)，相同的消沉好像已經重覆多次了嘛﹗明明走出來了竟又走進死胡同。看來我再一次不是很有耐性。
這在主裡的平安，是沒有人能奪去的。(我是在學習這樣依靠神。)
2011年2月13日 星期日
比安全性行為更安全的性行為
昨天看枕邊冇情人。不知道是否反映現實，因為電影的男女主角相愛但不表白，只上床不談情，好像這就能避免愛情的傷害。我想，電影的前半部滿足了所謂 用生理來思考的男性的夢想，有一個只要性不要愛的女友；而後半部就滿足了用情感來思考的女性的夢想，有一個浪漫善良有上進心的男友。
性和愛不是對立的。電影裡有一幕是男女主角在找安全套(他們也正確使用了)。正確使用是能夠大大防止成孕和能預防傳染愛滋病，這樣的是安全性行為，但是安全套不能防止傳染一些性病。
至於令人有安全感的性行為，就是雙方在婚姻約束下，許下承諾承擔後果，這就是有責任感的性行為。
與另一半是完全匹配，才好在身體上結合。
在看電影阿凡達時，裡面的人與飛龍的思想的接通，或與樹與人的接通，於我是比喻靈的感通。
所以我看阿凡達電影的愛情，在相處中產生的瞭解和契合，以致靈肉相結合，算是匹配，也有點神往。
唉，只可惜是婚前性行為。也因此後來出現不能互信的情況。
女性要懂得保護自己，其實尊重自己和女性以及承擔後果的男性也能夠這樣做的。
性和愛不是對立的。電影裡有一幕是男女主角在找安全套(他們也正確使用了)。正確使用是能夠大大防止成孕和能預防傳染愛滋病，這樣的是安全性行為，但是安全套不能防止傳染一些性病。
至於令人有安全感的性行為，就是雙方在婚姻約束下，許下承諾承擔後果，這就是有責任感的性行為。
與另一半是完全匹配，才好在身體上結合。
在看電影阿凡達時，裡面的人與飛龍的思想的接通，或與樹與人的接通，於我是比喻靈的感通。
所以我看阿凡達電影的愛情，在相處中產生的瞭解和契合，以致靈肉相結合，算是匹配，也有點神往。
唉，只可惜是婚前性行為。也因此後來出現不能互信的情況。
女性要懂得保護自己，其實尊重自己和女性以及承擔後果的男性也能夠這樣做的。
2011年2月12日 星期六
南生圍之謎The maze to Nam Sang Wei
首先，我都唔係好識點去南生圍。
其實我都一直想去一趟南生圍，只是沒有想過應該找誰同去又唔識去。
個多月前媽媽突然說要想去南生圍。
一方面我看著排得密密麻麻的時間表。總沒有全天得閒的星期六日，一直到農曆新年，但為免出現荒涼之感，我們不會在農曆新年去這些荒山野嶺。
而這就好像一個任務一樣放在我的心上，我也感到很慚愧，似乎是沒有盡女兒的本分和責任，但又感到為難，因為她的要求，好像要我即時安排時間去，但若是全日的活動，通知期也要好半年吧﹗就好像更證明我不夠重視家人。
在這樣樣的苦惱下，三星期前的一天，我去完宿營有點累早些去睡覺，隱約聽到她在抱怨她可以找誰同去呢。我又想到她的多時抱怨，例如她很快就回應子女的邀請的活動，但我們卻沒有快速地陪伴她想去的地方。
於是次日下午，我就打給她說月底可以去。怎料她說，「昨天我已經遊了南生圍了啦﹗」
實在令我十分驚訝﹗「噢，怎麼你懂得如何前往的呢？」
然而既然媽媽去遊過了，那麼我又要重新再找人同去南生圍了。
其實我都一直想去一趟南生圍，只是沒有想過應該找誰同去又唔識去。
個多月前媽媽突然說要想去南生圍。
一方面我看著排得密密麻麻的時間表。總沒有全天得閒的星期六日，一直到農曆新年，但為免出現荒涼之感，我們不會在農曆新年去這些荒山野嶺。
而這就好像一個任務一樣放在我的心上，我也感到很慚愧，似乎是沒有盡女兒的本分和責任，但又感到為難，因為她的要求，好像要我即時安排時間去，但若是全日的活動，通知期也要好半年吧﹗就好像更證明我不夠重視家人。
在這樣樣的苦惱下，三星期前的一天，我去完宿營有點累早些去睡覺，隱約聽到她在抱怨她可以找誰同去呢。我又想到她的多時抱怨，例如她很快就回應子女的邀請的活動，但我們卻沒有快速地陪伴她想去的地方。
於是次日下午，我就打給她說月底可以去。怎料她說，「昨天我已經遊了南生圍了啦﹗」
實在令我十分驚訝﹗「噢，怎麼你懂得如何前往的呢？」
然而既然媽媽去遊過了，那麼我又要重新再找人同去南生圍了。
2011年2月11日 星期五
正選，是後備的後備 Back up back
日前新買的小黑裙出師未捷，我穿著經過床上到窗台取耳筒的時候，就弄爆了縫口。果然是名符其實的的「小」黑裙，或者是我過胖。
所以今天的服裝是日前的前日入荷的裙子，只好在參賽前先使用了，希望不要弄髒，但吃午飯後，發現所擔心的是事出有因，因為的確弄污了。幸好不太明顯。
The little black dress that I bought the other day was a ship even sank, because this morning, I just broke the seam when I was picking up the pair earphone from the window bay across my bed. It was really a LITTLE black dress, or I am too fat for it.
And then I switched to the dress bought days before the other day. Thus in the contest would not be its first use but I hoped that I could keep it clean today, but the answer was out after lunch, that I was with the correct hope, because I really got some stains on. It was not obvious, luckily.
所以今天的服裝是日前的前日入荷的裙子，只好在參賽前先使用了，希望不要弄髒，但吃午飯後，發現所擔心的是事出有因，因為的確弄污了。幸好不太明顯。
The little black dress that I bought the other day was a ship even sank, because this morning, I just broke the seam when I was picking up the pair earphone from the window bay across my bed. It was really a LITTLE black dress, or I am too fat for it.
And then I switched to the dress bought days before the other day. Thus in the contest would not be its first use but I hoped that I could keep it clean today, but the answer was out after lunch, that I was with the correct hope, because I really got some stains on. It was not obvious, luckily.
2011年2月10日 星期四
馬尾 Liatris ligulistylis
年廿九，逛花市買了馬尾花。
年底年初逛花市購物是開心的事。
買的時候，帶回家的時候，卻是很擔心，我喜歡的會不會被批評？
回家途中在公共汽車上，就在思考會獲得甚麼批評，例如這是襯花，而不是正花，等等。或是價錢太貴，總之只是向負面看。
最後都順利過關，我是說，一方面在買的時候、買到回家的時候，也獲得正常的「行」的贊同，「好靚呀」「幾靚喎」之類，和正面的建議，「用水養會放久一點」。另一方面，還有是更意識到自己擔心小事的過程，甚麼是值得介意而甚麼不是。
現在已經事過境遷，我僅是想記得這經驗。
The second last day before the Chinese New Year, at the flower market I bought market flower.
It should be refreshing and happy.
At buying and bringing home, I was worrying whether my choice was to get critics.
On the bus, I could think of hypothesis of blaming, for example, that it is just a secondary flower but not a primary flower. Or it could be too expensive? All the way towards the negative side.
At last I went through smoothly. I would say, when buying and after bringing home, I got all the 'socializing' (I think so) agreeings, 'great', 'quite nice', and positive advices, 'plant with water is better'. Or I just be there for the awareness of these worries, and what I shall care or not, although from the person I care.
And I keep the memory for reference.
年底年初逛花市購物是開心的事。
買的時候，帶回家的時候，卻是很擔心，我喜歡的會不會被批評？
回家途中在公共汽車上，就在思考會獲得甚麼批評，例如這是襯花，而不是正花，等等。或是價錢太貴，總之只是向負面看。
最後都順利過關，我是說，一方面在買的時候、買到回家的時候，也獲得正常的「行」的贊同，「好靚呀」「幾靚喎」之類，和正面的建議，「用水養會放久一點」。另一方面，還有是更意識到自己擔心小事的過程，甚麼是值得介意而甚麼不是。
現在已經事過境遷，我僅是想記得這經驗。
The second last day before the Chinese New Year, at the flower market I bought market flower.
It should be refreshing and happy.
At buying and bringing home, I was worrying whether my choice was to get critics.
On the bus, I could think of hypothesis of blaming, for example, that it is just a secondary flower but not a primary flower. Or it could be too expensive? All the way towards the negative side.
At last I went through smoothly. I would say, when buying and after bringing home, I got all the 'socializing' (I think so) agreeings, 'great', 'quite nice', and positive advices, 'plant with water is better'. Or I just be there for the awareness of these worries, and what I shall care or not, although from the person I care.
And I keep the memory for reference.
2011年2月3日 星期四
目標為本 Target oriented
相睇的弟兄，我將會改稱為基督徒弟兄，因為我說到是朋友介紹的朋友，一些朋友說這不算是相睇喎。但我覺得是相睇架，豈不是以找男女朋友為目標而認識的嗎？但不稱為相睇也不要緊啦。
結果我會同佢做住朋友先啦。希望不算拖住佢啦。因為佢又唔係追我，我又未鍾意佢。事實上，當我向人們說起，人們鼓勵我做住朋友，多互相瞭解，我都提不起勁，不想投資這些時間。但又有人說我這個情況是逃避，不肯步入愛情？使我常常困惱，是否逃避呢？
前些時候，另外有一朋友的朋友，是讓我相處的時候很沒有壓力的，不過這個朋友的朋友是不可考慮的。其實我剛發現相處沒有壓力的情況，即時就想，如果與我同行的另一半是有這個特質就好了，另外甚至希望我有很多友人都是這樣不給我壓力。但我沒有想考慮這個朋友的朋友的，所以即使不知道他不可考慮也沒有所謂，然而，知道都唔緊要丫。其實我都唔知道如何寫才是政治正確，及讓所有人都免受傷害。希望上述是。其實我另有一兩位友人，都是能夠讓我在相處的時候沒有壓力的，但是我因為沒有時間與其中一位發展友誼而十分困擾，但是，如果我真的想發展友誼，其實總能安排時間吧？還有，就是，這就證明了我是純的嘛，因為這不給壓力的特質是不論男女的。再又及，其實我都沒有太瞭解朋友的朋友，因為我們的認識是有目標的嘛，我會努力只專注在目標。
Let me call the match making meet up brother just a Christian brother. There I said he is a friend introduced by a friend, and then some friends said it does not count as match making. However, I think it is. The meet up was target for finding boyfriend / girlfriend. But I do not insist naming it as a match making.
Then I am going to be just friends with this guy. I hope it does not cause wasting of his time. As he is not chasing me, and I do not feel I love him. In fact, when telling people about this guy, and then people encourage me that make better friend with him and understand each other more, I do not feel very eager, and I do not want the investment of those time. However, one elder sister said that this is an escape mind, and I am refusing to start up a love relationship. I am a bit annoyed, not sure whether it is escape on my side.
Recently another friend of another friend, when I get together I felt no pressure. Of course this friend of friend is not to consider. Actually I just discover about there is no pressure, I think I want this characteristics on the person who shall walk with me, or even many of my friends who shall walk with me in my life. As I said before, I do not consider about this friend of friend. Actually it could be that I do not know about not to consider, but it is just fine that I know about it. Here in my writing I hope it is politically correct and not to write anything harmful. I hope the above is. There are only one or two my friends who have this characteristic of no pressures, but for one I have no time to develop our friendship and I am feeling bad about it. However, if I really want to develop the friendship I should be able finding such time? Also, I am convinced that I am pure in being attracted to the characteristics of giving me no pressure, because it is of guys and gals. Just one point, that I do not get to know much anything else about the friend of friend, because we get together for a target and I am best at only that target.
結果我會同佢做住朋友先啦。希望不算拖住佢啦。因為佢又唔係追我，我又未鍾意佢。事實上，當我向人們說起，人們鼓勵我做住朋友，多互相瞭解，我都提不起勁，不想投資這些時間。但又有人說我這個情況是逃避，不肯步入愛情？使我常常困惱，是否逃避呢？
前些時候，另外有一朋友的朋友，是讓我相處的時候很沒有壓力的，不過這個朋友的朋友是不可考慮的。其實我剛發現相處沒有壓力的情況，即時就想，如果與我同行的另一半是有這個特質就好了，另外甚至希望我有很多友人都是這樣不給我壓力。但我沒有想考慮這個朋友的朋友的，所以即使不知道他不可考慮也沒有所謂，然而，知道都唔緊要丫。其實我都唔知道如何寫才是政治正確，及讓所有人都免受傷害。希望上述是。其實我另有一兩位友人，都是能夠讓我在相處的時候沒有壓力的，但是我因為沒有時間與其中一位發展友誼而十分困擾，但是，如果我真的想發展友誼，其實總能安排時間吧？還有，就是，這就證明了我是純的嘛，因為這不給壓力的特質是不論男女的。再又及，其實我都沒有太瞭解朋友的朋友，因為我們的認識是有目標的嘛，我會努力只專注在目標。
Let me call the match making meet up brother just a Christian brother. There I said he is a friend introduced by a friend, and then some friends said it does not count as match making. However, I think it is. The meet up was target for finding boyfriend / girlfriend. But I do not insist naming it as a match making.
Then I am going to be just friends with this guy. I hope it does not cause wasting of his time. As he is not chasing me, and I do not feel I love him. In fact, when telling people about this guy, and then people encourage me that make better friend with him and understand each other more, I do not feel very eager, and I do not want the investment of those time. However, one elder sister said that this is an escape mind, and I am refusing to start up a love relationship. I am a bit annoyed, not sure whether it is escape on my side.
Recently another friend of another friend, when I get together I felt no pressure. Of course this friend of friend is not to consider. Actually I just discover about there is no pressure, I think I want this characteristics on the person who shall walk with me, or even many of my friends who shall walk with me in my life. As I said before, I do not consider about this friend of friend. Actually it could be that I do not know about not to consider, but it is just fine that I know about it. Here in my writing I hope it is politically correct and not to write anything harmful. I hope the above is. There are only one or two my friends who have this characteristic of no pressures, but for one I have no time to develop our friendship and I am feeling bad about it. However, if I really want to develop the friendship I should be able finding such time? Also, I am convinced that I am pure in being attracted to the characteristics of giving me no pressure, because it is of guys and gals. Just one point, that I do not get to know much anything else about the friend of friend, because we get together for a target and I am best at only that target.
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