目標為本 Target oriented

相睇的弟兄，我將會改稱為基督徒弟兄，因為我說到是朋友介紹的朋友，一些朋友說這不算是相睇喎。但我覺得是相睇架，豈不是以找男女朋友為目標而認識的嗎？但不稱為相睇也不要緊啦。　
結果我會同佢做住朋友先啦。希望不算拖住佢啦。因為佢又唔係追我，我又未鍾意佢。事實上，當我向人們說起，人們鼓勵我做住朋友，多互相瞭解，我都提不起勁，不想投資這些時間。但又有人說我這個情況是逃避，不肯步入愛情？使我常常困惱，是否逃避呢？　
前些時候，另外有一朋友的朋友，是讓我相處的時候很沒有壓力的，不過這個朋友的朋友是不可考慮的。其實我剛發現相處沒有壓力的情況，即時就想，如果與我同行的另一半是有這個特質就好了，另外甚至希望我有很多友人都是這樣不給我壓力。但我沒有想考慮這個朋友的朋友的，所以即使不知道他不可考慮也沒有所謂，然而，知道都唔緊要丫。其實我都唔知道如何寫才是政治正確，及讓所有人都免受傷害。希望上述是。其實我另有一兩位友人，都是能夠讓我在相處的時候沒有壓力的，但是我因為沒有時間與其中一位發展友誼而十分困擾，但是，如果我真的想發展友誼，其實總能安排時間吧？還有，就是，這就證明了我是純的嘛，因為這不給壓力的特質是不論男女的。再又及，其實我都沒有太瞭解朋友的朋友，因為我們的認識是有目標的嘛，我會努力只專注在目標。　
Let me call the match making meet up brother just a Christian brother. There I said he is a friend introduced by a friend, and then some friends said it does not count as match making. However, I think it is. The meet up was target for finding boyfriend / girlfriend. But I do not insist naming it as a match making.
Then I am going to be just friends with this guy. I hope it does not cause wasting of his time. As he is not chasing me, and I do not feel I love him. In fact, when telling people about this guy, and then people encourage me that make better friend with him and understand each other more, I do not feel very eager, and I do not want the investment of those time. However, one elder sister said that this is an escape mind, and I am refusing to start up a love relationship. I am a bit annoyed, not sure whether it is escape on my side.
Recently another friend of another friend, when I get together I felt no pressure. Of course this friend of friend is not to consider. Actually I just discover about there is no pressure, I think I want this characteristics on the person who shall walk with me, or even many of my friends who shall walk with me in my life. As I said before, I do not consider about this friend of friend. Actually it could be that I do not know about not to consider, but it is just fine that I know about it. Here in my writing I hope it is politically correct and not to write anything harmful. I hope the above is. There are only one or two my friends who have this characteristic of no pressures, but for one I have no time to develop our friendship and I am feeling bad about it. However, if I really want to develop the friendship I should be able finding such time? Also, I am convinced that I am pure in being attracted to the characteristics of giving me no pressure, because it is of guys and gals. Just one point, that I do not get to know much anything else about the friend of friend, because we get together for a target and I am best at only that target.